Sunday, November 23, 2014

Bad Advice.. is it Really ? Self Analysis (This is what I would do)

How many times we think that we have been given bad advice and people don't think well and they intentionally give bad advice to us so that we fail. I think i have also felt many times , but then i don't know everything out there so i need to talk to people and get their opinions.

Since we are not know all... we need to rely on people and information which is out there to make us educated and improve our lives. Let's see the following scenario.. is it us or the other person.

Now let's say same advice is given to 2 different people 
e.g.  the Advice is .. "Talk to People for Success"

let's take 2 personalities


Soft Spoken Person
Ego Centric Person

A soft spoken and focused person will know what to talk to another person and will be able to figure out a way to make other person align (common interest) with their goal and succeed.



A ego centric person will be self-focused, probably doesn't care about other person and will focus on what they need .. they may come out as a selfish person .. Now how do we expect other people to work with a person who only care about themselves.


Outcome of same advice is different to different people, depending on how we absorb the information, What our personalities are and how we implement it. Given all the factors .. probably the person who advised us doesn't have any control over the outcome.

another lighter example will be.. wearing Red color.. lot of celebrities wear RED and look good..  it totally depends on the person and personality on whom a RED color will look good.. on some it may not... we know when color doesn't look good on us.. likewise every advice that we hear..

Given that most of us don't understand ourselves completely what is the possibility of we are able to understand the other person  and give them advice tailored to their needs. So an advice is a general thought which is shared and it depends on the person receiving the advice to tailor as per their needs and implement it.

On the flip side of the coin .. we are given an advice which is intended to do us harm. Again the input should be taken into consideration and implemented only when we feel it will have a positive outcome.

We are responsible for our own Actions

When you may have asked for a advice someone may have said "This is what I would do" :-). What the person is saying is that for what I know .. I will do this thing in a certain way... Now it is totally your call to make of what you think and what are your constraints to implement it. I kinda understood it long time ago.. while writing this article I feel now I fully understand what it means.

If we don't understand what's good and bring peace for us .. how can we make right decisions. If we cannot make right decisions.. how can any advice help us?  Overall if we have been blaming other .. may be we want to consider the way we think and the way we do things for us. Keep in mind this article is about self analysis and eliminating any wrinkles in our personalities to improve ourselves. Hope this helps and Happy Journey through life.

SOMETIMES WE ARE LOOKING FOR ADVICE , 
BUT ARE NOT WILLING TO LISTEN AS WELL.



















Thursday, November 20, 2014

Birth Star Astrology

In Vedic Astrology the Zodiac is divided into 27 equal parts of 13 degrees 20” each being called a Nakshatra.  The Moon completes a circle of its path around the earth in about 27 1/3 days. The segment in which Moon lies at the time of one’s birth is called Janma Nakshatra (Birth star) of that person.  The position of the Moon in a nakshatra is used to identify the nature of the individual. Your birth star (Nakshatra) represent your mind, psychology, emotional well being and have significant impact on your personality and behavior.

Your Moon sign represents the sign where planet Moon is located when you were born. This is also called your birth 'Rasi'. Your birth Star is the star through which Moon is passing at the time of your birth which lies in the Rashi (sign).

Nakshatra and Rasi:

Nakshatras belonging to various Rasis are as follows:

1.  Mesha (Aries)
Ashwini, Bharani, Krittika (1st quarter)

2.  Vrishabha (Taurus)
Krittika (2nd to 4th quarters), Rohini, Mrigasira (1st and 2nd quarters)

3.  Mithuna (Gemini)
Mrigasira(3rd and 4th quarters) , Ardra, Punarvasu (1- 3 quarters)

4.  Kataka (Cancer)
Punarvasu (4th quarter), Pushya, Aslesha

5.  Simha (Leo)
Magha, Purva Phalguni, Uttara Phalguni (1st quarter)

6.  Kanya (Virgo)
Uttara Phalguni (2-4 quarters), Hasta, Chitra (1-2 quarters)

7.  Tula (Libra)
Chitra (3-4 quarters), Swati, Vishakha (1-3 quarters)

8.  Vrischika (Scorpio)
Vishakha (4th quarter), Anuradha, Jyeshta

9.  Dhanu (Sagittarius)
Moola, Purva Ashadha, Uttara Ashadha (1st quarter)

10.  Makara (Capricorn)
Uttara Ashadha (2-4 quarters) Sravana, Dhanishta (1-2 quarters)

11.  Kumbha (Aquarius)
Dhanishta (3-4 quarters), Satabhisha, Purva Bhadra (1-3 quarters)

12.  Meena (Pisces)
Poorva Bhaadra (4th quarter), Uttara Bhadra, Revati

Often People ask, what God should I worship? This is a personal subject that everyone should decide for themselves, which God they should worship. One way is to just go by their intuition. Your intuition will tell you based upon your past life, because your connection with God is not from this life but from past life also.

­Another important clue is look at your birth star. Each birth stars have their own vibrational energy which resonance with particular Gods. You can worship your birth star Deity or God related with them and this will helpful for evolution of your soul in this life journey.

Names of the 27 Nakshatras  and their God:

1) Ashwini: Birthstar will resonate with Ganesha, the Elephant headed God.

2) Bharani: Birthstar will resonates with Goddess Kali.

3) Krittika: Birthstar will  resonate with Kartikeya God.

4) Rohini: Birthstar will resonate with Goddess Laxmi.

5) Mrigasira: Birthstar will resonate with Goddess Parvati.

6) Ardra: Birthstar will resonate with the fierce form of God Shiva.

7) Punarvasu: Birthstar will resonate with Goddess Aditi.

8) Pushya: Birthstar will resonate with God Brihaspati.

9) Ashlesha: Birthstar will resonate with  God Vishnu.

10) Magha: Birthstar will resonate with Pitris.

11) Purva Phalguni: Birthstar will resonate with Shiv Lingam.

12) Uttara Phalguni: Birthstar will resonate with God Sun.

13) Hasta: Birthstar will resonate with  God Sun.

14) Chitta: Birthstar will resonate with God Vishwakarma.

15) Swaati: Birthstar will resonate with Lord Hanuman.

16) Vishakha:  Birthstar will resonate with Lord Muruga or Subramanya.

17) Anuradha: Birthstar that resonates with Goddess Saraswati.

18) Jyeshtha: Birthstar will resonate with Lord Subramanya

19) Moola: Birthstar will resonate with Goddess Kali.

20) Purva Ashadha: Birthstar will resonate with Goddess Laxmi.

21) Uttara Ashadha: Birthstar will resonate with Ganesha, the elephant headed God.

22) Sravana: Shravan star resonates with Lord Vishnu.

23) Dhanishta: Birthstar will resonate with Lord Shiva.

24) Satabhisha: Birthstar will resonate with  Lord Shiva.

25) Purva Bhadra: Birthstar will resonate with the fierce form of God Shiva.

26 ) Uttara Bhadra: Birthstar will resonate with Lord Vishnu or Lord Shiva.

27) Revati: Birthstar will resonate with Vishnu and Laxmi together.