Showing posts with label Divorce. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Divorce. Show all posts

Saturday, March 31, 2018

Remedy for Broken Relationship in Astrology




When we go through difficult times in life or break in a relationship and feel the suffering, we need to remind ourselves that the Universe does not hurt us, but rather seeks to transform within us. But often transformation begins ruthlessly by taking away the things from us, we think we need most or we love the most. Not only do hard circumstances take away our relationships, but they give us some glimpses into our own “flaws” and what we need to improve. So what can we do when our wounds, our ugliness, or when our unloving feelings arise?


The healing work starts first beneath the surface of consciousness. Just like a physical wound heals from the inside out. We might be wise to tend to this wound in a very similar way to any other wound. Here are some things to consider:


1: Take your time out: When you are wounded you stop. Just as when you are sick you go to bed, so also do the same when your “heart is breaking”. Your energy flows inward to question and grieve, leaving you little energy for anything else. Give yourself a break, slow down, and take care of your basic needs: Food, rest, and basic self-care.


2: Try to know what is the problem: What is a difficult time to tell you something? Is this the last wound of a broken relationship, ( e.g. Saturn transit over your natal Venus ) How do you describe the condition, how long have you had it, and how did you get it? The wounded heart often needs some time to heal. You can do some of these things.


3: Create a Get-well Plan for yourself: Apply something to calm the pain down. Go inward to find the healer within yourself. This inner healer, speaking perhaps this time with the voice of divine power. Your own intuitive healer may say you’ve got to write it out, paint it out, cry or rage it out, or simply clean your house with a passion. Let your inner Saturn as healer, although things have changed, but they are moving in new directions with new possibilities. You may benefit by getting away for a while from your home or circle of friends. Go for a retreat or vacation to some place where you can gain perspective. Even a day away, or something to break up familiar routines can help.


Considering surrounding yourself with things that innately hold inspiring energy, or simply things you love, color, plants, and enjoy your time with nature, is a good way to overcome your depression. This could be allowing yourself things you’ve tended to deny yourself. Why not get yourself a pet, fresh flowers, a musical instrument, or whatever else you may have put on hold. After divorce, many people hated the loneliness of a double bed. So they can bring anything like an aquarium and are delighted in watching the fishes. Consider what lessons or insights can be gained and be open to the idea of how this experience can generate new possibilities for you. Move beyond shame and blame. Find out what was unconscious and invisible in the relationship. Keep cleaning your fears, anger, and irritation. It hurts, but you need to understand the part you played in this wounding. So it won’t be repeated in the future. During difficult times we often regress to obsessive-compulsive coping patterns. So by admitting your anger and your less-than-perfect behavior, you cleanse the wound with a deeper level of understanding.


4: Make a plan: The plan is your attitude and your healing therapy. It will be temporary and will need to be changed. Stick with your plan even when it’s hard. If you re-expose yourself to your ex-partner you are re-engaging in the shame/blame game. Don’t expose yourself to this wound again unless you’re with someone that can help you.


5: Give time to heal yourself: Protect your heart from the sometimes toxic advice of well-meaning friends, and resist the urge to expose your vulnerability to the world. So be patient and pace yourself. Can you create some scheduled routines and “dates” in your week? This could be as simple as knowing that on what day you can go to yoga, gym, and walk in the morning for 20 minutes. Every Saturday night you can go out to dinner with friends, and every Sunday night you can call someone whom you trust, for a heartfelt talk. Put the schedule up in a place. If you feel you need it. Like all wounding, full healing takes time, but we don’t have to suffer constantly. Build trust in yourself, that you are loveable and that we can love again. Trust in the process, forgive yourself if you’re not perfect. With time you will see the wound is healing beneath the surface.


6: Natural therapy for depression: Take plenty of fresh juice, green vegetables and sprouts e.g. alfalfa and mung daal. you can take cottage cheese and butter milk if it suits you. Take fresh lettuce, celery, grape fruits, or apple juice especially in the night before sleeping.





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Wednesday, March 15, 2017

Saturn influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology


If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Saturn as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship. 

Saturn is the planet of responsibility, limitation, boundaries , truth of life etc. It teaches to live in reality, commitment , practicality, sincerity and long term goal in life. Saturn makes people humble by giving harshness in life. Saturn is the steadiness of mind, and  power to live in alone.


Let's consider one by one how these are important..

Saturn is responsibility, limitation, boundaries , truth of lifeWhen there is a Saturn influence in relationship (Venus with Saturn), it is very restricting, practical and block love it could be lot of learning and some what of a natural sadness in the relationship. If we have Saturn influence we should try to connect and be loving try to with the other person. If not then it will become hard on the other person to be in relationship and relationship can be break.  

Saturn is humbleness: When there is a Saturn influence you will see a person to be humble (Saturn in 7th house), they probably not like that from the starting.. they go through toughness in life which makes them humble.. This humbleness comes due to the helplessness that they are put in.. in someways it is a practical approach..but for a relationship to be live and healthy we need to have smiles around.

Saturn as power to live in lonely: Saturn is the planet of loneliness and it brings us  loneliness ( Saturn with Moon) which when looked from a relationship perspective is not that so great..When we are in relationship we want to be around people for their affection and love. If one wants to be alone then it will take lot of effort to take up and maintain a relationships. Once we know we have Saturn influence we should try to overcome it.


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Wednesday, February 22, 2017

Mercury influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology

If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Mercury as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship. 


Mercury represent self-expression, speech, writing ,communication, understandings, flexibility, adjustment, speaking with clarity, intellectual power, flexibility and rational thinking. 
 
Let's consider one by one how these are important..

Mercury is self-expression, speech, writing  & communication What happens when we are not able to express ourselves in speaking, writing and while communicating. This can cause issues and frustration for a person who is not able to express. it is also difficult for the partner to get their head around what is getting communicated which can make marriage life difficult. Communication should be clear and there is should be no misunderstanding. 

Mercury is intellectual power, flexibility, adjustment and rational thinking :  It is very difficult to deal with a person who cannot not be flexible and adjusting. Everyone should be understanding other person's point of views and be flexible and adjusting. If the person is not adjusting and flexible then relationship could be very difficult. If a person cannot think rationally, how can we have a conversation with a person who cannot think rationally and above it is not flexible. This can become a major issue in a relationship. We should be thinking rationally and should be flexible while communicating with partners so that able to manage relationships. 


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Tuesday, February 21, 2017

Jupiter influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology

If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Jupiter as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship. 


In Vedic Astrology 9th house is the dharma house which is ruled by Jupiter. D-9 harmonic chart which is derived from 9th house is the the chart of marriage. So Marriage s not a physical relation is also spiritual/dharmic path with your spouse. Therefor in Hindu culture wife is called as Dharm patni ( hindi word).  Therefore Jupiter play a very big role in marriage to evolve spiritually for both the partners. However if one partner not understand this part then Jupiter could create problem in marriage. 

Jupiter is  hope,  wisdom, teaching, expansion of thing, belief, knowledge , morality wisdom, compassion, spirituality and connection with the universe.


Let's consider one by one how these are important..

Jupiter can cause us to loose hope : When Jupiter is not is a good dignity we just lack hope.. Hope is a core ingredient of life.. Hope is what makes us look ahead in the day, relationship and life. If we don't have hope .. it is difficult to live with a hopeless person. There are many phases of life where we need to be hopeful and if we are not hopeful then there can be problem in a relationship

Jupiter can cause us to question wisdom & teaching : If one partner is interested in learning in higher wisdom and other is not then this probably the worst thing a person can do is to question everything in relationship. It happens a lot in marriage where one person is into spirituality and all and other is not, and if one partner is giving lecture or teaching unnecessary  then other partner get irritated and this could be problematic in relationship. 

Jupiter can cause us to be un-compassionate: When Jupiter is not in a good dignity then a person can be very materialistic and un-compassionate.. which is not a good thing . When we are living together we should be compassionate with out it , it is hard to carry relationships. Even if we are not compassionate we should try to be compassionate to carry the relationships.


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Saturday, November 21, 2015

Ketu (South Node) influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology

If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Ketu (South Node) as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship. 


Ketu (South Node) Ketu is the south Node of the moon. It is the body without head. As we can understand if we cut head from the body the body is much larger than head. Ketu is past life painful experience which we don’t want in this present life. Ketu which have no head means can’t think, directionless, confusion, don’t listen because it already have experienced in past life (overconfident related to those things where it sitting in the birth chart.), dissatisfied, self critical towards own things because want perfection, isolation and separation.

Let's consider one by one how these are important..

Ketu (South Node) can cause dissatisfied : When Ketu in 7th house then Ketu wants perfection in love and lot of unreasonable and unusual expectation from partner. So it  is a natural dissatisfaction, it is so natural .. it is like being dissatisfied for necessary reason. This dissatisfaction can cause in them and they loose interest in partner and create a distance in relationship.  A person with a Ketu influence should question when they are not happy in a relationship to see if there is a valid reason for it. 

Ketu (South Node) can cause isolation, separation: Since Ketu is transformation and want change. So when Ketu placed with Venus it want change in love and their love life them to that extend that they are no more interest in this materialistic world.  The person may want to explore higher meaning of love and stay separated or isolated which is not good for a relationship of this materialistic world.. Once should try to be connected to people around if you want to enjoy life and relationship. 
 
Ketu (South Node) can cause a person to be self critical: When Ketu in 1st house then Ketu expect perfection in personality. So if a person is not able to get the perfection they feel that they have not done enough. You should not be that critical about yourself..if we take self criticism on to the extreme side then it turns into inferiority complex ..when we have inferiority complex we don't enemies to drag our-self down or defeat ourselves..( Rahu in 7th house ) we are enough.. We need to be mindful of this as it can be very damaging in the relationship.

Ketu (South Node) can cause a person to be critical of others: Ketu wants perfection so they are not happy with what other do if it is not perfect. Since perfection is a matter of opinion. It is hard to make the ketu person happy. A Ketu person should try to be reasonable in a relationship, otherwise it will be hard for others to be with you. 


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Friday, October 9, 2015

Sun influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology

If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Sun as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship. 

Since Sun is both planet of creativity they have good sense to create good art. Sun debilitation can makes a person weak in dealing in relationship, can have ego. Relationship makes their intelligence, independent and creative nature vulnerable and they compromise which is hard for them. They must learn to balance their creative needs with those of partner in order for the soul to growth.


Let's consider one by one how these are important..

A badly placed Sun can sometime make a person weak in relationship :  When Sun is not placed in a good house a person can have low self esteem in dealing with relationships. When we feel weak we cannot express ourselves or take the benefit of the relationship. The relationship may feel harder than it is due to our low self esteem and inability of dealing with it. We should always be confidant and try to balance and be expressive in a positive way for better relationship.

A bad dignity Sun can sometime make a person very egoist : High dignity planets are always adjusting and conscious of the surrounding. So most of the times things work out for them. It is when they are in tough dignities that they react to ego, anger and being irritated. Like wise when we keep ego in relationships we have tough time maintaining them. We should try to keep the ego out, but not let anyone take advantage of us.  There is a real need to have a balanced approach in relationships as they are long terms.

Sun is weak : When a person is too much interested in relationship then person can not focused in own relationship. the person is interested in more than one partner and this can be a cause for divorced.  I think we need to loyal and faithful in relationship and recognize what our partner needs,  if we ignore it we will only create a distance between partners. 



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Wednesday, September 23, 2015

Jupiter in 12th House Career


Jupiter in the 12th house


In astrology as we know 12th house is considered a malefic house and if your 10th lord placed in 12th house is known as Dur Yoga means there can be trouble in your career. But there are many other career possibilities if the 10th lord is placed in the 12th house. Any sign, house, or planet that is associated with the 12th house or Pisces archetype can be expressed on a public or collective level through a profession.  It is important to understand, this does not mean that the Pisces archetype refers to a more glamorous or soulful career. Fame and glamour can surely be part of the Pisces archetype dynamic. We can also expect to find more accessible professions. Tapping  into a collective need through one’s profession can be done quite mundanely, in fact, this is more common than the glamorous expressions. So when Jupiter is in the 12th house what kind of career can you expect.


First we need to know what the 12th house is ? 12th house is the house of loss. This is the house where anyone can see you whether it is through the internet or through T. V. This is the house of foreign land, hospital, jail, ashram, non charitable institute, behind the scenes ( working in film industry), meditation, yoga, temples etc.


Now what is Jupiter ? Jupiter is the planet of luck, wisdom, higher knowledge of life, teachings, children, wealth and joy. All the good events occur because of the blessings of Jupiter. Jupiter is a very important planet in astrology because it represents many things in our life. 


Jupiter represents expansion, religion, belief, hope and long distance traveling, good work related with the society. Jupiter is creativity,  imagination,  inspiration, spirituality, fortune, purpose and direction of life.


Now you can mix both of them. If you have Pisces energy in 10th or 9th house or Jupiter rule your 10th house or Jupiter in the 12th house. The 10th house demonstrates how we are going to promote and manage our career, rather than the actual choice of career. Planets in the twelfth house are denied naturally in direct expression. Twelfth house shows hidden talents or qualities are found when they are brought from unconsciousness to consciousness through activities and perfected after realizing that you must develop them completely on your own. Jupiter being the Guru of the zodiac gives strong spiritual insight and an intelligence steeped in wisdom in 12th house. 


With Jupiter in the Twelfth House depending on the sign and dignity, working and general good fortune coming through spiritual work, literature, art, poetry, religion, stage and working behind the scene. The person can work in a meditation or spiritual center because they already have good wisdom about all these things. They can have any healing work or can  be working in a hospital. The 12th house is considered to be a karmic house so there could be a karma bound with you related to the Jupiter career of life. You may serve in temples, in public institutions or in asylum. 


Jupiter, a naturally spiritual and wise planet, gives ethical impulses in regards to these areas of life which is similar to Jupiter and 12th house. There could be a spiritual or religious nature that is expressed in a collective level so being a priest, Buddhist or monk. Obviously it's not just about having faith but it's also about knowledge. Jupiter in a 12th house can be teachers, you can also have a multicultural nature or have international businesses. The person could have any kind of job that relates working with new immigrants or working with the races. 


If Jupiter has Pisces sign with a Sagittarius mix:  Could be in publishing, sales, anthropology, entrepreneurship, higher education, mysticism, theology, and travel. 


If Jupiter have Pisces with Pisces  mix: Could be working in natural resources (oil, gas, gems); oceanography, climate-related professions, wildlife and nature, professions related to religion and spirituality, vacation industry (resorts, travel), public institutions ( health care, welfare), movie industry.




Sun in 12th House Career

Mercury in 12th House Career
Saturn in 12th House Career