If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension. For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
- Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
- Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
- Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
- Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
- Aggression, argument and fighting (Mars)
- Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
- Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
- Learning, teaching, higher wisdom (Jupiter)
- Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
Mercury represent self-expression, speech, writing ,communication, understandings, flexibility, adjustment, speaking with clarity, intellectual power, flexibility and rational thinking.
Let's consider one by one how these are important..
Mercury is self-expression, speech, writing & communication: What happens when we are not able to express ourselves in speaking, writing and while communicating. This can cause issues and frustration for a person who is not able to express. it is also difficult for the partner to get their head around what is getting communicated which can make marriage life difficult. Communication should be clear and there is should be no misunderstanding.
Mercury is intellectual power, flexibility, adjustment and rational thinking : It is very difficult to deal with a person who cannot not be flexible and adjusting. Everyone should be understanding other person's point of views and be flexible and adjusting. If the person is not adjusting and flexible then relationship could be very difficult. If a person cannot think rationally, how can we have a conversation with a person who cannot think rationally and above it is not flexible. This can become a major issue in a relationship. We should be thinking rationally and should be flexible while communicating with partners so that able to manage relationships.
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