Wednesday, November 15, 2017

Be A Better Version Of You

You may have heard people say , they are what they are and they cannot change. They are admiting that they are stuck and they have no intention of getting better or change in life.

As human we have the capability of learning and evolving ourselves. Animals or other living beings cannot do it. Humans can evolve and get better. As a infant we don't know much,we grow and learn some good or bad things in life. Sometimes we are stuck in situations where learning is tough, but to get out of the situation we have to grow out of the problems in front of us.

As per Astrology the difficult planet placements means that we need to learn certain lessons in this life. It is the reason we face challenges, the more we resist the harder it gets for us.  When we learn sooner it will make our life better as we are going to face similar challenges in later life. Midlife crisis is a good example of this learning as by that age we have faced enough challenges that we get fed-up and want to change for better.

When faced with tough situation, It is we who needs to take action else we can be stuck in situation for ever. Some people believe that some how things will rectify without action.

Spread the Happiness: Be the person who is spreading happiness, if you are not the one and don't want to then who will spread happiness. If people feel happy with you they would want to be with you and be your friend. It is a feedback loop, what goes around come around. So be the person spreading happiness.

As per mythology we are getting better in every lifetime that's the reason we go through suffering and challenges to evolve. We evolve with every birth so we take so many births to get MOKSHA to break the cycle of birth. So why not become better person and learner sooner than to go through the suffering and pain of life.

We can use astrology as a tool to understand challenges and be a better person. It takes time to change human behavior as we are slow to change, learn and understand. Change the grooves in your mind for better.

I would say be a better version of yourself till we are alive as we can always do things better as world around us keep on changing. We cannot be successful and evolved with our understanding of yesterday. The best way to be a learner is to ask oneself what i could do differently than to find faults  and blaming others. If we are wet in rain, it is our fault not to check weather or have umbrella or rain coat to protect our-self. Stop blaming others for any and everything. Till we are able to find faults in other , it is somehow we don't evolve. Take responsibility of everything that happens to us and decide to learn from situations. What others do is their own journey. 

As I am TodayA Better Version of Me
I get angryNo One can make me Angry
I am fearfullI will figure out what is the fear and overcome
I am not healthyI will find the right food and eat healthy
I am over weightI will do body excersise to be in shape
I have a issueI will peacefully figure out a solution
I cannot speak properlyWhen I speak, people wants to listen to me
I am Sad most of the timeWill be Blissfull all the time, people will feel happy around me
I want to be happyI want to make eveyone happy
I don't know so many thingsI will become a SUPER LEARNER
I need help from lot of peopleI will learn the skills and self help

When we UPLIFT ourselves we help people around us, be it parents, spouse , friends and others
If you had just ONE LIFE what would you do?
Make every conversation or opportunity to learn and grow. 
Be driven from inside than the outer-forces. 

Think of it this way that you are 90 years old. You have all the time in life and you cannot do much. At that time you would want people around you, your children , grand children and  the well wishers. They will be there only if you were a giver, they found guidance from you, peace with you(consoling). People will reciprocate. I think may be the world is very selfish today. That is why we have the family, but then i hear more people hating their family than strangers. You may decide to earn so much of money that you will not need anyone :-). I think that is what i see lot of people are doing, but to be rich you need to be useful for the society. It is your choice how you will be when you will be 90.

Saturday, November 4, 2017

Rahu (North Node) in 2nd and Ketu (South Node) in 8th house Axis in Astrology

Rahu (obsession) and Ketu (let go) are the soul purpose of life. Rahu is future and Ketu is past. Rahu shows what we want, it is obsession over those thing where it sits and Ketu is our past mind conditioning, it shows where we already dealt with and we don’t want it. Rahu and Ketu axis shows that in what area person is immature and need to be matured and in what area person is matured.

Second House : Security, self value, resourse, wealth, represents food, speech, family, upbringing from parents, structure, what you value in your life.

Eighth House:  Insecurity, fear, transformation, regeneration, death and rebirth, occult science, money of other people, joint asset with the spouse, and hidden house. 

So what happened when Rahu and Ketu axis fall in 2nd and 8th house.


This karmic axis is considered one of the most difficult as its connection with the positive and negative potential of the individual because there is nothing in our hand.

ketu is detachment. Ketu in 8th house is conditioned about his fear or insecurity in past or in childhood. Life is uncertain, unstable, sudden shocking in 8th house. Rahu in the second house lack in values in their childhood or in their past lives or their childhood. These people experience life is insecure, stressful and the native think that they need to establish solid foundations for security whether it is materialistic or spiritual. Our value comes from our family, what things we value in our life it shows our home environment, and how we were raised in. But as we get older we define our own value terms because Rahu is a rebellious force it rebel against the value system of the family and define own value and structure of the family.

The person can be obsessed with money for instance, because money is a certain value and brings a certain consistency. The second house of consistency is in opposition to the house inconsistency and  insecurity (eight house) . Eight house insecurities and fears, 2nd house want strong need to have certainty, and solid values that we can define our own. There is understanding in the native mind that life is about volatile and at any movement  unexpected things can happen.  Due to understanding of that area life the person can withdraw from it and gravity works where things that are certain and where we get to find values and was valuable and meaningful and with own terms.

Rahu in the 2nd house makes for a person who will work hard to develop their own resources and define their own sense of structure and value. 2nd house is the house of money these people become very money oriented because money give some sense of security and one that needs to develop self-esteem and self-worth of their own effort. 8th house is the house of other people house and these people benefited from others resources and other people’s money, thus their inherent sense of value came from others. Due to these insecurities and a feeling of powerlessness in their past lives makes person very reluctant to rely on others to help them.

Rahu in the 2nd house makes person have strong appetites, they like to eat good and sometimes they may be alcoholic and used to do smoking. Sometimes they also use bad language. But with time as the person get mature they gets better over time as their values, diet, improve.

Rahu in the second is the most troublesome placement for married and family life. They face the problem in managing their own resource.  Ketu in the 8th house gives good intuition and psychic ability. These people have innate knowledge about sexual matters. they have natural talent for occult arts.

These people need to learn what is personally important to them and hold meaning and purpose. they need to look honestly at themselves and defines these important values, and seek to apply them in daily life. Once they learn self respect and honor these values, they will stop to undermine from others, and instead respect themselves. As you create yourself relationship will improve you become more satisfying.

Rahu (North Node) in Taurus and Ketu (South Node) in Scorpio sign Axis:


Rahu in Taurus/ Rahu in 2nd House

represents creative, productive and material desire. Rahu is exalted in Taurus sign. Rahu in Venus sign and Venus is good friend of Rahu. Venus influences allow it to express its desires properly. This position gives immense potential to natural ability to understand the Rahu ambition to create something beautiful. This could mean success in areas like the arts, media, and entertainment.

Ketu in Scorpio/ Ketu in 8th House 

is exalted too. Ketu acts like Mars, the ruler of Scorpio. This is a complex and difficult sign but Ketu understands these complexities as it is also involved in the deep mysteries of life. These people interested in researching the subtle energies of nature and hidden knowledge. Ketu is without ego and Scorpio learns to break from individual identification towards the final lonely path of spiritual fulfilment.

Rahu in Taurus Is very strong sign about being resourceful productive and stable, here the person need to careful about not to go negative side of Taurus it should be careful about not being materialistic, overly Possessive, over cautious and stubborn.

The person needs to be careful about negative aspects of Ketu in Scorpio which is being destructive, vindictive, cruel, suspicious, repressed. The native should be in positive aspect of Scorpio that is foundation to build into his Purpose.

Those with Taurus Rahu and Scorpio Ketu Axis in sign must remember that the path of material satisfaction is as much a important as  the spiritual path in life.

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7th Lord (Spouse) in Different Houses

In astrology there is many method to look about spouse. What kind of person we will get whether they will be happy or unhappy, or they will gain or loses after marriage from spouse. This can be seen from the their birth chart. 7th house lord represents spouse and according to the placement of 7th lord in different houses show that what kind of relationship and what kind of spouse one can get.

Result of seventh lord in different houses

7th lord in 1st house or in ascendant: 7th lord, is placed 7th place away from itself, and 7th place away means business and partnership. Its mean a person can marry with business partner and brings great sense of self, purpose and fulfillment and the person attach with their spouse. 

7th lord in the 2nd house: 7th lord, is placed 8th place away from itself means, money gain through marriage and partner is well spoken and family-oriented. But relationship have up and down can be trans formative mentally. 

7th lord in the 3rd house: 7th lord, is placed 9th place away from itself, its means the person get talkative, courageous, fortunate, religious and intelligent spouse. The spouse is learned and have high academic qualifications. 

7th lord in the 4th house: 7th lord, is placed 10th place away from itself, its means the person gains may gain vehicles and comforts through spouse. In man chart the wife can be working, who have loving and homey nature.

7th lord in the 5th house: 7th lord,is placed 11th place away from itself, its person gain wealth through spouse by speculated business. The person romantically attracted with spouse and good for a happy married life with love and affection. but if the seventh house lord is not in good dignity or in enemy sign the native spouse may have extramarital affair during 7th lord mahadasha or antradasha.

7th lord in the 6th house: 7th lord, is placed 12th place away from itself, this position is not good. 7th lord in 6th makes married life unhappy due to many reasons. This person may get sick, quarrelsome and conflicting spouse. They have lesson in this lifetime that their soul need to evolve through by giving service to the spouse.

7th lord in the 7th house: 7th lord, is placed in its own house which is good. Have good diplomatic qualities, like to make everyone happy, compromising and devoted to spouse.

7th lord in the 8th house: 7th lord placed 2nd house away from itself its mean person may good partner and gain wealth through spouse. Spouse has strong interest in the occult and gain money through ‘unearned’ sources like inheritance and lottery. 

7th lord in the 9th house: 7th lord is placed 3rd house from itself, its means the person get good luck from spouse and rise after marriage. The spouse is supportive and help in fulfilling duties of spouse. Spouse can be of foreign or different culture.

7th lord in the 10th house: 7th lord is placed 4th house from itself, its means the person may get spouse who is caring and loving. The spouse is working and and a source of income. And the spouse career oriented, can be helpful in uplifting the career

7th lord in the 11th house: 7th lord is placed 5th house from itself, its means the person may get wealthy spouse the person gain wealth in marriage, they gain money with spouse in speculative business.

7th lord in the 12th house: 7th lord is placed 6th house from itself, not good position the person may have distant relationship with spouse. The person may not have good habits and live in its own world. Spouse can be can be spiritual in nature and may be of foreign or different culture.

These are the general reading any aspect and conjunction with 7th lord by any planet can modify the result.

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